Harmful obsessions

Sometimes it happens that you think that something incredibly good is starting to happen in your life. I for example obsess and overthink about it way too much, and in the end I get hurt when things do not happen the way I had constructed in my head. But there is no other way: should one seize to hope, dream, fantasise? No, never.

Sure, it hurts when you find out that the moments of happiness were not a beginning, but that was it. However, those moments of happiness were there and nobody can take them away from me. And I am happy about having had them.

Relationships between human-beings are complicated things, far more difficult to grasp than anything else I have ever learned. Yet in the end they are so simple: whether two people have feelings for each other or not.